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Friday, June 24, 2011

Review: But I Love Him

Title: But I Love Him
Series: No
 Genre: Young Adult- Contemporary
Author: Amanda Grace
Publisher: Flux
Release Date: May 8, 2011
Book: Bought

"Tonight was so much worse than anything before it. Tonight he didn't stop after the first slap.

At the beginning of senior year, Ann was a smiling, straight-A student and track star with friends and a future. Then she met a haunted young man named Connor. Only she can heal his emotional scars; only he could make her feel so loved — and needed. Ann can't recall the pivotal moment it all changed, when she surrendered everything to be with him, but by graduation, her life has become a dangerous high wire act. Just one mistake could trigger Connor's rage, a senseless storm of cruel words and violence damaging everything — and everyone — in its path.

This evocative slideshow of flashbacks reveals a heartbreaking story of love gone terribly wrong."

Domestic abuses is something that is on the rise and not talked about often. People think that when they see someone getting beat up by a spouse, significant other, or a boyfriend/girlfriend, that all you have to do it get out and your done with that person. They are so wrong on so many levels. It is not just about getting out. The emotional stress of the relationship, the devotion to help the person change, its always on the victim. They think it their fault, that there is no way out. It also makes it worse when you have kids. But then, you really have a connection with the abuser for the rest of your life and there is no way of getting out of that.

I really enjoyed and connected with the character Ann. She knew this boy Connor and fell for him in the since of not so much pity but she wanted to help him. She had a heart for him and knew that he wouldn't be like his father. That he would be different. The thing is with this, hurt people..hurt people. Victims don't realize that they to will express angry, rage, and even hit because that is what they grew up with. I like that Connor fought himself. He knew what he what he doing was wrong and did what he could. But he did needed help.

Ann I adored her. She stayed by his side giving each piece of her to him to help him in what ever way she can. She never left his side, but she herself was drowning in her  own anger. I am glad that she had her mom and friends who reached out to her and let her know that whenever she is ready they will be there.

For victims, reaching out is hard. As much as you love the person, you have to get away. Ann had such amazing strength throughout the whole story. I am glad that she made the right choice. This book is a great insight on what happens to domestic abuse victims. This shows ever flaw, every bit of hurt, rage, anger that lashes out. I loved how the reader, got a good idea of what not only what Ann was going through but Connor as well. And I don't care what anyone else says, Connor is victim too. He was raised this way, he saw beatings everyday. While I am glad that Ann made her choice, I can only hope that Connor gets help too.

I give it 5 BITES!


Happy Reading!


7 comments:

  1. Happy Follow Friday! Hopping through via Parajunkee.
    Have a wonderful weekend!
    Holjo @ Pedantic Phooka
    www.pedanticphooka.com

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  2. I got this right when it came out, but keep putting off reading it... The abuse, I guess, and how nervous it makes me to read it for a few different reasons. Will get to it one day!

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  3. SO SO SO SO want to read this!!
    Your review made me want it even more.

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  4. This is a very difficult topic to address in fiction well. It is laudable when that is achieved! Thanks for sharing today.

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  5. What a great review! I think these types of books are needed out there. Especially for victims who often show signs of PTSD.

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  6. Hey stopping by from follow friday, great choices & great blog! Looking forward to more posts. Have a great weekend. New follower!

    Darcy @ Open Book Empty Cup

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  7. Savy this is such an awesome review. I agree with everything you said. Connor definitely was a victim. What he did wasn't right but you could understand what made him that way. And it definitely gives such an honest insight into an abusive relationship.

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